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RE: Pretending like you don't need anyone
But brother the thought of having someone look at me that way again scares me, for once again i will be vulnerable, i will bear upon her all my weakness again, all of my broken pieces, my yearnings will have a home, all of my soul, then loose her again? Brother im not sure i have the strength, how can i allow someone look at me that way again
I am really sorry to hear this bro, I can understand how badly a women can break your heart. I know how bad it is to be vulnerable when you are with someone you love. I put myself though that for a very long time and went through a real bad phase. Then I realized that it was all my fault, never should I have shown her my soft side so she could just walk over me and call me names. I doubted myself for so long, thinking it was me who was fucked up.
I think in any sort of relationship we need to think a lot before we put down our guard, there are some things we shouldn't show to the ones who are not ready to take it. I am sure that they will stay no matter what if they actually love you but if they don't you will be in a mess.
So in short brother, know if the other person truly loves you and not just saying those words coz its nice, even before you show them that fragile side of yours...
Have a good day bro :)
Thank you so much for this advice, it feels good to know someone understands what i feel. Your poetry continues to reflect me like a mirror. Thank you