Hey, thanks for stopping by. There's work out there for people with my qualifications thankfully. It's just landing the right job that won't make my wife utterly miserable.

One of the things that is sticking in my mind right now, and probably my wife's mind as well, is that we've just seen a close friends marriage break down after the husband refused to find a job on a different roster. He works a 4 week on, 1 week on roster and has done for years. When his wife asked him to find a better roster he refused and now they're filing for divorce. We don't want to put our marriage under strain for a job but I think if we viewed a job like that as a short term fix to a difficult position then we'd be OK.

I hope your situation improves soon!