Any person who goes to a psychologist thinking they are going to get the solution to their problems from them is sorely mistaken. And any shrink who says they can solve peoples' problems for them is lying. All we can do for one another is stimulate thought and ideas so each individual can awaken to the solution themselves. ONE of the two beings must, though, have an accurate perception of reality, and the person who is requesting the thought stimulation must always pursue wanting to know TRUTH and making the adjustments in their own minds and lives to accurately pursue perceiving truth. If one of the two do not have that than one is just lying to themselves and the other is just stealing your money. Most do not want SOLUTIONS, many just want to pay someone to listen to their bullshit, and fool themselves into thinking they really want a solution, when in fact, THEY DO NOT! They have entitlement mentalities and are looking for someone to rationalize their excuses, because they are lazy and do not want to get off their asses and do what it takes, which is what winners do. They do what it takes and then live with the consequences, positive and negative, with no excuses and move forward. THERE ARE NO GUARANTEES IN LIFE, if that's what you are looking for, Wake UP!