I think that self development should come first on anyone's list. Don't get me wrong, every true follower of christ should put him first before everything, but believe in him all you want, and do better than Paul, you might not really get anywhere without self development. I caught a glimpse of your actifit report where you said something about Christians (the Nigerian types mostly) excusing incompetence with God related things, there you have it.
Yes.
That's the message i was trying to pass across, even the bible said faith without work is death.
The believe something and self development doesn't substitute each other, both has to be present.
With God, you know you are in the right lane and you are maintained in a right state of mind even when things aren't going well.