Sankofa Creative Competition #3 : Kokoro toun Je Efo, Idi Efo Lowa; Finding the Root of Your Problem

in #life7 years ago

Problems are unavoidable. Everyone faces problems and usually they help us find ways to improve ourselves, but then there are some problems that seem more persistent than others.

The Yoruba have a proverb “Kokoro toun Je Efo, Idi Efo Lowa”, this literally translates to the insect that is eating the vegetable is at the root of the vegetable. Many times we try to make excuses for the problems we face.

“My parents were poor and that’s why I am not doing so well in life.”

“People don’t like me and that’s why I’m not getting the gigs I want.”

“I am not successful at this because I did not get formally educated about it.”

Well this proverb lets us understand that the cause of the problem is usually not very far away. You are the root of the vegetable in this case, you are the one elevating some of your problems and allowing them to remain problems. If you stop giving excuses and focus on doing everything you can to change your situation, then that problem you were facing would go away.

You want a job but don't have the knowledge required? Then go learn. You want to be a good writer but the things you write suck? Then practice, you'll get better. You want to be a singer but you're terribly shy? Then put yourself out there, go on stage and overcome your fears.

Look within yourself today dear vegetable, find the root of your problem and get rid of that insect.


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I have a tip/suggestion:
This #BOOK : It can help people get to know & understand themselves better - on a more INTIMATE LEVEL:

Finding Your Own North Star (by Martha Beck) - Highly recommended !
(Has exercises to complete)

Thank you for that, will check it out.

Oh, you're most welcome. It really does have some great exercises.

Forces one to ANALYZE/Think over past experiences (one's hurts & traumas) and REALIZE just how it affected them (Positively & Negatively) and Forced them to grow & change.

Of course, it's essential to write them down - your answers (so You can refer back to & reflect on and ultimately figure stuff out ).

Great entry again, as always. My new found friend. Love and admire your works ❤😉

Thank you so much. Your contest has given me a platform to explore ideas. Good stuff.

well this is really a nice post i love to see more from you

Thank you. Try to follow and keep up with me then :)

I agree, usually the biggest problem people face is their own negative thoughts. Take responsibility for both your actions and your thoughts. good post

Your biggest rival is always yourself, conquering the self is the path to success. Thanks for reading.

"Practice makes man perfect", if you are bad at something then you should try to improve it, you will fail sometimes but eventually will improve.

Very true, practice builds consistency. Thanks for reading.

amazing entry... big ups man

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