Positive Attitude: The Power Of Positivity

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, positivity means: "the quality of being or inclination to be optimistic or hopeful in disposition." So that's right. Positivity is simply a habit, not a trait you are born with.


Like learning the guitar or running, positivity is an acquired skill you acquire more at the more you do it. If you're positive and pessimistic all the time, life will be pretty boring for you. If you're positive and upbeat all the time, life will be pretty dull for you, too. If you are only positive when you feel things are bad or sad, you'll never live to experience any true happiness. But if you can't stay positive no matter what, then what are you even doing with your life?

There are plenty of people who have negative thoughts going through their minds all day. They're negative because of the way they view the world. Negative people have a hard time enjoying the world around them. Most of the time, these negative thoughts are manifested in how they look at themselves, what they think about, and the way they talk.

On the other hand, there are plenty of people who have positive thoughts going through their minds all the time. They're positive because of how they view the world. Positive people enjoy life. And, in turn, they enjoy what life has to offer. This positive effect of positivity can manifest in many areas.

Let's start with a little secret. Yes, it's a secret...I was a pessimist most of my life! In fact, I was such a pessimist that I didn't see any reason for living at all. But, I've changed my view since I became aware of the power of positive thinking.

Now, don't get me wrong. When I talk about a "pessimistic" outlook on life, I do mean that literally as well. I still have bad days but I have more good days than bad days. I think this comes from my constant study and observation of the things that interest me. If I don't like what I'm studying, I won't read it.

Here's the bottom line. Positivity isn't negative or upbeat. Positivity is actually the opposite of negativity. It's a state of mind that I find to be the most uplifting. Remember, negativity only lives in our minds. Positivity creates a state of happiness in our world.

Can you see the connection between being a pessimist and living a miserable life? Of course not. Not everyone who doesn't believe in miracles can see the benefits of living a positive lifestyle. But, most who do recognize the potential for improvement and the power of positive thought are living examples of positivity. Maybe you, too, could benefit from this secret weapon of the mind.

The old saying is true, "if you want something bad enough, you'll work hard to get it." This saying is especially true for the negative. People who dwell on negativity will keep working on their negative to positive. And, they will keep trying until they have achieved their goal. Only negative people give up on life.

In contrast, someone who lives in a positive frame of mind is always working toward the positive. They find positivity contagious and infectious. A positive individual knows their potential for improvement. They visualize their life in its fullness and accept the obstacles that may come into their way. A positive individual will face adversity without the fear of it paralyzing them from ever reaching their potential.

It's easy to focus on negativity when you feel down. It's hard not to fall into the trap of negativity when you are surrounded by it. But, you don't have to let the negativity rule your life. You can take measures to fight negativity and bring about positivity in your life.


Look around and see the positivity in other places. There is good and there is bad. negativity can be very pervasive in our world. But, you can stay away from the bad and focus on the good. That's half the battle and a great deal of the enjoyment.