You bring up some pretty good points and I think spending too much time on the phone or social media is a bigger issue than most people are willing to admit . Communication and the lack there of will always be a main concern as well. However, this up and coming generation seems to be struggling with putting to much time and effort in other parts of their lives and taking away from the family. I wonder if people thought of marriage as being deserted on an island except you get to choose your partner if they would fight for the marriage differently. I think it's a matter of perspective.