Know Yourself First
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What is it you love in your life?
Because only when you know what you love, you can change what you don’t!
So first, before you start changing things in your life, you have to know what you actually want. Ask yourself what motivates and excites you, remind yourself what is that you love(d) about your:
- job
- family
- kids and/or partner
- yourself
- friendships
- profession
- education
… or whatever is important for you.
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If you focus on the things you’re passionate about, then the right path will unfold along the way.
You can't control the life itself, but you can control your own thoughts and reactions. Instead of breaking your head over something you don’t like in your life, fuel your desirable change by investing your mental power and emotional energy towards improvements.
Keep in mind that your current (undesirable) situation is just a result of your past thoughts and focus.
As your outer world mirrors your inner world, so by changing your inner world (thoughts and focus) your outer world changes accordingly.
Where your focus goes, the matching result shows.
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See also:
Creativity Matters
Quiet Zone
Celebrate Your Little Successes
Quiet Your Inner Critic