@humanearl, Awesome advice. I love the honesty point. I'd also add staying true to your word. If you say you're going to do something... do it. If you're not sure you can accomplish it, then don't say it in the first place. Honesty comes easily for me, but staying true to my word without failing, that can be difficult. There are so many unforeseen problems that can arise that make my can-do promises falter. The more I live, the more I find holding my tongue is best.Thanks a lot for the encouragement, the tips are really helpful.