I'm Such A Failure...
Some people are so determined to get success. But they are taking the wrong route with it. They are doing the right things. And they are giving consistent effort.
The reality is, most of us will fail on getting what we want. The years will sneak by, and we will realize we got nothing out of life that we wanted.
Why does this happen?
Adapting
People who get what they want are continually growing and adjusting. When we stop growing and changing we can move forward. When bad things happen, we have to be able to adapt.
How you do anything is how you'll do everything!
What people don't realize, is there whole life is very consistent. Because how you do things is how you do everything. Whether it's how you clean, how you do your job, or how you treat relationships. We often are relatively consistent all these levels. We do things the same way. With me, I am continually looking for the fastest way to get things done.
This is the way I treat my entire life. Sometimes my quality is lacking. Even though I try to keep it up. Knowing how you do things, can give you a significant advantage in adjusting so you can do better in your life. If you are the type of person who is on time, you are probably on time for every event you go to. For the most part. If you are late person usually are late everywhere. Not just one place.
Many people don't realize how important this is. They think they can force themselves to change one area for the often don't look at the whole scope.
Successful people are constantly weeding out things in life that don't provide the maximum amount of value. If you are continually doing something. Figure out why often, we procrastinate too much we never get things done that we want to get done. We have too much filler stuff. Stuff that provides no value it's just sort of there. We drop things at every unexpected moment when something more urgent comes along. Often the less urgent is the things that will get us closer to our goals.
A lot of the biggest wins and losses in life are due to chance. We don't control for example what genetics we are born with, what environment we are born into, what obstacles we may have to over come. The parts which are not chance are based on what we learn and the attitude we carry. If we seek knowledge, are willing to adapt/change to create success rather than accept failure, then we are more likely to achieve in my opinion.
Often success requires sacrifice. Change isn't easy but is necessary if whatever we were doing in the past isn't working out so well compared to some new thing we started doing.
I agree, I think hard-work and persistence are essential ingredients of success
Great post on motivation.
Great article, really thought provoking
Indeed very true. But perhaps our approach is skewed. When we try to get what we want we are only serving ourselves. When we learn to serve others or even a higher power, only then will we find success and be blessed. One must remember when they clock out from this world, we leave much behind. Those things that are invaluable like helping others will go with us. That is success. Thanks for sharing @kaylinart
A lot of truth in this post Kaylin. Delayed gratification is a big one that rewards us later on while we get things done now. It's interesting, I'm also constantly looking for faster ways to do things and effectively as well. Even from the smallest of things. I find myself cutting out things that are not necessary from what I do that takes up time. One thing I also learned is to keep moving. Keep moving no matter what. A lot of lessons and traits and value can be built from your post. Thanks for these refreshing posts that gets the better of us as humans 😊 Take care Kaylin and all the best 😊
Wow that great...
Kepp on success :)
I sure think that theres a difference in quality about what im doing. Especially for what person im doing something. Doing stuff for myself has usually a higher quality :>
Thanks @kaylinart for the words of wisdom. I think most pf us could do away with a couple of bad habits that we do consistently.
Sometimes we ourselves are the ones who put the barriers of what we want to achieve and as we do is to say that we are not experts to do the perfect things but if we can improve to not make the same mistakes and so move towards success