The time we lose in complaint

kalinka (63)in #life • 7 years ago

We often mumble for something. Unfortunately, our environment is such. Sometimes we even meet on the street accidentally and start complaining.

But do not think there are people who just do not do anything wrong with them. Everyone can complain, but to do so, he has chosen to focus on the negative event that has hit him.

We need to be aware of the fact that our day is a string of events, feelings, or even energies, and we can not always control them, but on the other hand, we can dominate our choice of what to focus on. In this way, we consciously bear responsibility for what we share with others, what message we send to the world, and how we value ourselves and our lives.

Will we allow the bad weather, the closed store or the unpopular employee to be stronger than us? Is this the most important thing that happened to us during the day to tell it to our interlocutor? Will we give them the power to engage our thoughts and mood, to define and change them as they decide?

Here, in these situations, the endurance of the will manifests itself. It is important to know to what extent we control ourselves and the states in us awakened by external situations and to what extent have we let themselves be controlled by them. Every day we express ourselves and according to whether we complain or mark something nice we can judge for our personality!

The complaint is time-lag time. What is it? Blank and meaningless words about something that has already passed and is over, paid with time here and now, running and waiting to use it. If we want to change something in the situation that irritates us, we have to choose another approach - the successful approach, the winner's approach, namely the action.

To complain is easy, but acting instead is difficult. The important thing here is that only one of them will change, only one will make us even stronger, more capable and happy. Only one will give us in return instead of taking from us.

Rich and successful people have no time to complain - time is measured in action! Always remember that when some are outraged and say NO, others act and say YES ... and therefore, in turn, become rich and successful.