Opposites do attract, but which opposites, and attracts in which ways? Do opposites attract but only in absolutes of every single way, thing, opposite? People don't tend to think too deeply about a lot of idioms, ideas, including this Opposites Attract generality which is left rather open-ended.

Physically, a strong woman could be with a wimpy man. That is an example of an opposite, an ironic couple maybe. But that kind of opposite may not be the most important kind perhaps, but it really is up to each person to make those decisions themselves on who they want to date & be with.

Opposite in Styles

Your lover may be opposite in style, but maybe not in principles, the goals. You two should not have different world views. Have the same heart. The same root. The same foundation. How can a house divided against itself even stand?

Questioning Character

I believe in questioning character because that is how iron sharpens iron. It is how we grow. For more info on that, on character, philosophy, dating, people can watch @Stefan.Molyneux and @HodgeTwins and @Cernovich videos.