Why does life keep teaching me lessons I have no desire to LEARN?

in #life7 years ago

Why does life keep teaching me lessons I have no desire to LEARN? 

Hi Steemians! This is my first post. I want to start my post with these topic. :)

 Life has a funny way of teaching us lessons. When there is something you need to learn, something that you need to work on, the same situation will continue to repeat itself until you either learn your lesson or find a healthy way of dealing with that particular issue.  

So here I’ve listed : 5 Life lessons People wish they learned Earlier

1. LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF FULLY. For me, In order for you to be loved. You need to start with your self. You need to know what's your worth and what you don't deserve to. Stop caring about how others will see you or how you are going to be accepted. The key is within YOURSELF.  Stop proving yourself or aiming approval from parents, bosses, colleagues, professors, teachers, friends, and strangers before you give yourself any approval or stop struggling with your body image. Each and everyone of us have differences. You must learn how to love and accept yourself exactly as you are is the foundation of self-love. 

2. FEED YOUR SOUL. Everything in existence has its own Soul; the vibrant dancing of the wind, the busy and determined ant colonies, the temperamental ocean, the old majestic trees. The universe itself has a Soul which animates everything and decides the unique way all the atoms are arranged. The source of all Souls is what we call Spirit. All you just need to do is: 1. Breathe the clean air of the nature. 2. Do mind-body-spirit connection. 3. Spend a day with your loved ones. 4. Listen to music 5.  Regularly do good deeds while expecting nothing in return. There's so many ways. 

3.  FIND A STRONG SUPPORT NETWORK.   As long as you are surrounded of the best people in our lives such as our family, friends.  Find people who wants to invest time with you, support your visions, someone who will be there for you no matter what happen. Surround yourself with people who are going to lift you higher. Its really amazing how far you can go because someone believes in you.

4. FORGET EXPECTATION. Expectation is going to be the root of your disappointments. A secret into happiness is letting every situation be it is instead of thinking what it should be. Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through expectation. 

5. FORGIVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS.  It is inevitable in life that we will be treated badly by someone else. Some of these actions against us can be forgiven and we can move on from them, others can take us time to forgive, work through and understand, and some can seem unforgivable. Forgiving others can seem challenging; however what can be more difficult is to find the courage within our minds, hearts and souls to forgive ourselves. Forgiving oneself is far more difficult than forgiving others. We can hold onto our resentments and anger and choose not to forgive because it can serve as a protection against being hurt in the future. We can become caught up in a web of anger and hurt, where we treat ourselves harshly and feel that we must be perfect or that we cannot make mistakes. However, we are human, and to be human is to make mistakes and learn from them. 



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