This has been nicely said

No one will ever be as committed to your life as you, And why should they? It's YOUR life, not theirs. If you aren't helping yourself grow and you aren't being committed then how can you expect your life to go well?

It is why I have in my room by Jim Rohn that says
The Major Key to Your Better Future is You.

It's fascinating to see people blame other people for their lack of progress.

If you show that you work hard for yourself,other people will gravitate towards you to lend you a hand.