Marriage was once a meaning of true love uniting together til death do us part..... ive been married and sadly ended in a divorce. Now ive met someone new but he never wants to marry again due to a very bad previous divorce. This puts people like me in a sad situation as i wasnt the one who destroyed it but he is now scarred. These days its about what you can get out of a marriage some may say. But i still believe in real love and a good marriage because i love the person, not what i can get out of it . So i agree better to have a good divorce than a bad one as it affects future realtionships.