As we know that union is strength, If we want people to work with us as a team, we need to behave with them kindly, so that feel love and they would love to work with us. Yes you are right, it's about you and only you, how you manage your blog and how you manage the people working of you and the people whom you are making blog or website.
Everyone will want to belong to your team or group, if they feel welcome and appreciated.