Pamper the Ladies!

Hello Steemians!

Ladies are important in this life, there is no need to hide the fact that when they are happy things happen to go well. They might sometimes be neglected in life issues but their usefulness cannot be overemphasized, they are like oils to the engine; things work smoothly when they are involved.

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This post is created to make men treat their ladies better, little things to do to them to keep them happy. The real truth is that the happier they are, the better it is for their male counterparts.

Whenever you discover that your lady is moody and unhappy, do not turn a blind eye. Do not do like a common saying in my language which literary translates:

Only the person looking at the face of the wife would discover that she is crying

Show love by been sensitive to their moods, it goes a long way in keeping a healthy relationship. Now if the you discover that she is behaving strangely and unhappy, there are steps of things to do:
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=> Find out if you are the problem, if she is sulking be sure you are not the cause.
=> Know more about her responsibilities & her chores and learn how to appreciate her for doing them.
=> Lend a helping hand if they are too demanding for her, it is the least you can do as a gentleman.
=> If there are machines for her manual chores, get it for her. Let her know she is not a house girl, getting the machines depends on pocket though.
=> Hold her and listen to her talk. Practice active listening and not passive, make sure you pay attention to what she is saying. Sometimes they really do not need a reply, just a listening ear.
=> Act as a partner and give her hope not as a teacher. Do not be bossy with her, keep the bossy acts at your place of work.
=> Be more sensitive to her needs and ask her how you could be of help. Let her know she can always count on you.
=> Give her space to cry if she deems it fit to.
=> Take her out more often, a holiday alone is not a bad option if you can afford it.
=> Celebrate her.

If you could really put these things to heart, you have learnt the act of pampering ladies. Every proper lady deserves to be pampered!

Keep steeming always.