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RE: Would you like to trade stories about the dumbest argument you have ever had? I'll go first.
First of all, I'm sorry your marriage did not work out. I hope you are doing well.
But... man you got evidence on tape! Do you know how jealous people are of you for that? That is the dream scenario. You knew you were right and had proof! Even in silly arguments that would be the best. And the "That may be what you said, but I know what you meant!" gave you a pretty clear signal of what would lie ahead. Its similar to nonameslefttouse's situation where the guy he knows was arguing with made up facts in his head.
After that I had to go back in my head and reassure myself of all the other ones:
Me: I'll mow the yard in the afternoon.
She: I thought you were going to mow the lawn this morning
Me: I filled up the gas in the truck
She: Why didn't you get gas while you were out?
On and on. My shrink calls it gaslighting, but sometimes I think she was just unattached to reality.
As a result, I keep my phone on record all the time, I have a script that uploads it to the cloud by the 5 minutes and overwrites the files from the month before
can't use logic to combat fantasy lol