Look, some people Cant understand situations like that, because they havent lived it ,or because they dont have the values ​​and common sense, to understand ...
As we say in my country:
To foolish words, deaf ears.
A palabras necias, oídos sordos; in spanish.
No one has the duty to understand the other.
Just be grateful with who can understand ...
Give thanks to God, because your beautiful girl, and her family passed that proof so difficult, and be happy...
Greetings from Venezuela.
God blees you!