Good write up @KubbyElizabeth honestly there's no right or wrong answer for this one. You have to follow what's right in your heart. Money makes fueds, between friends and families. If you feel you should help them help, if you don't, then don't. Not to sound mean but if. Sometimes you feel you shouldn't that is not a bad thing, even if it's a family member. Sometimes people have to learn. But every situation is difficult and different.
Thanks for commenting, you are so right. It is easier said then done, family pulls on heart strings I have little control or discipline over.
Understandable, I'm the same way.
I'm not alone! :)