Live A Happy Life By Not Giving A Fuck!
Pardon my language but that four letter word is the realest way to pass this message (you can stop here if you are not comfortable with it, Thank you). I actually feel sorry for that word because it is been discriminated and used loosely by many...but you rarely find a weightier or realer word that convey both messages and emotions perfectly like it. OK, this post is not about Fuck but about not giving it. Your fuck is your control, emotions and sanity. And it is like a protective shield or a kind of armor that protects your most important resources like time, energy, money and others.
Anytime you give a fuck unnecessarily, you are putting this resources at risk of controlled, used and mismanaged by other people. And only one person will be at loss for that - YOU. Giving too much of it in the long run will affect you deeply and drain your important life resources plus affect your mind and your whole being. Many people will want you to go through very uncomfortable conditions for their own gain and will even try to emotional blackmail you if they see are reluctant, giving in in this kind of situation is actually giving a fuck.
Don't get it wrong, help as many people as many times you can but never let it be at your detriments. You will be amazed that many that expect and 'exploits' your emotion to go all the way for them will not walk half the distance for you if it were to be the other way round...again helping one another is one of the acts that makes the world beautiful. But never give a fuck when it is unfavorable to you.
Giving away your time, efforts and intelligence to someone or organization for a stipend is you giving a fuck. That will drain you all the important resources i have mentioned. Not to mention it draining you physiologically and emotionally, when you could be putting those same resources to your own cause and gaining massively from them.
And i am not recommending you turn to an asshole, far from it. Say no politely but stand on it. People most times are confident they can convinced you because you have a reputation of not been firm. Start saying no to things you don't want or like, it is a matter of time before you have a new reputation of 'he is cool but does not take shit'. Be honest, be polite and you have nothing to be sorry about.
Conclusion
Retain your fuck to those things that matters to you - your life, your family, your business, your health. Engage majorly in activities that bring satisfaction and joy, prioritize your fuck. You are not obligated or guilty for saying no things that affect you or do not resonate with you. Learning to say no politely at the right time or right away saves you your important resources to do and think about things that matter.
Thank you for reading.
Don't forget I give a fuck about your upvote, resteem and comment.
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I'm being attacked on a daily basis by some troll with a bigger SP than me.
All because I posted a little anti-Trump meme.
But you're right, I shouldn't give a fuck. I'm carrying on as normal, mostly. He's the one wasting his precious energy with his spite (I called him out for being a jew-hater - he didn't like that).
So, my reputation's dropping slowly. But my follower list isn't; in fact it's still growing. I'll weather this storm while this bully-boy continues to shoot himself in his foot.
He's not at all bright, it would appear.
And he's a maggot compared to real-world problems. As you say. You can have an upvote, resteem and a FOLLOW (even). As I like what you wrote. :)
Ultimately, he really needs to get a life. And I can't help but feel sorry for him as I could never be as pathetic a person as him. I'm very confident of that! :D