I have a feeling there will be a lot of miserable people in all life's arenas when full extraction is achieved! The point that you stated is one of the main reasons that I really love the Steemit community. Everyone here is valued by their own content and output without pressure. There are things here that irritate people too, finding the negative seems to be a universal human trait, but the positives far outweigh any perceived negatives in my opinion.

Also, I really want to be the slippery, slimy moss on the stepping stones:) Hope you are having a marvelous day!