Agreeing with @lady-idra - that organised religion as an institution is a business, but of course the individual priest could try to practice what they preach..! Sadly it seems to rarely be the case, but I guess it can be hard, even for the priests, when everything is handled as a business, everything in society around us. The church should be a refuge in all this, but when there is money in the game, it's hard to keep up the spirituality I guess.. Hope you'll end up having a nice ceremony anyway, maybe you should all just go into the woods, and call the uncorrupted priests of nature ;D