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RE: Social Hangover

in #life7 years ago

New people, speaking English and having a long day of your own comfort zone (home) is so draining, even if having a lot of fun. I did notice that you are a very good listener, and I don't think you looked grumpy at all when just silently paying attention to what other people, Taraz mainly, we're saying. I think it's a great skill to have and it's something I am trying to learn.

Speaking to a bigger crowd is my nightmare and I avoid it at all cost, but I like to talk a lot with a smaller group and like you said too, entertain.

I can relate to you on the dancing part, it's a completely different world! Every time I go to a bar, I really really want to go dancing and I can do it all night long and not feel so drained as I would if I just have to sit and talk. Really weird.

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I did notice that you are a very good listener

Or my brain had checked out. :D

I don't think you looked grumpy at all

Excellent. I've worked on that.

Speaking to a bigger crowd is my nightmare

Mine too. Was. For a long time. But then I forced myself to do that over and over again because I knew that I would also love it after I've gotten used to it. But sometimes when I'm in front of a crowd, I suddenly notice for some reason the the extrovert part of me bails out and the introvert in me is left all alone and when it's time to talk, I stutter, some words come out of my mouth in random order and I have no idea what I'm talking about. I hear the words that I've said with few seconds delay and I start to think that people must think that I'm on drugs and start to laugh because of that. Hilarious, sad and very confusing at the same time.

I can relate to you on the dancing part

When there's no energy for talking it's time for tequila and dancing.

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