Many of us humans are held back by the perspective of our view of what is a fact. Many obstacles can be handled if we change our way of thinking and try to see the world from a different point of view. It is not always your fact that is the real fact. Men and women have different ways of thinking sometime both are right even if there opinions are just the opposite:-) Our thoughts and way of thinking must be open to learn new facts:-)
If you where born with a color lenses on your is that made the sky look red, your fact wood be that the sky is red, even doe other see that it has an other color.
If your say something to your dear friend, without any Evel meaning, your friend can still think of what you said as pure evil because he or she has a different opinion of what you said.
Life is not easy:-)