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in #life2 years ago

Life has ups and downs. Fighting and feeling broken doesn't mean you should give up on life.

Carrying on through the pain will teach you valuable lessons and show you light even in the darkest places. You feel like you've reached rock bottom when you're broken.

We've all been there, but don't let it consume you. After the pain, you'll be happier than you ever thought. Since we live in a dualistic world, we must feel broken to feel complete.

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If pain were eternal, we'd never know happiness. As frustrating as it may be, life is a duality. We must experience sadness and despair to experience joy. Let uncomfortable feelings flow through you instead of fighting them. Resisting your feelings prolongs them. Accept the pain, learn from it, and thank it. Accepting pain instead of condemning it can teach us a lot.

Resisting change often complicates our lives. However, change helps us survive, grow, and learn valuable lessons. Change is never easy, but is it worth it?

If you hadn't noticed, life's best moments occur when it seems hopeless. Exasperation and desperation usually point you in the right direction. Life's pleasures don't come easily.

Everybody fights. Imagine life without challenges. We would be bored and never learn from hardships. Obstacles keep us alert, encourage change, and prevent complacency. It doesn't mean times will stay tough forever. Keep your eyes on the sun and the shadows will disappear behind you.

When you're broken, you focus on the negative rather than the positive. Even if you're grateful for getting out of bed today, showing gratitude to life brings more good.

What happens if you focus on everything wrong? You'll draw negativity. Numerous studies have linked gratitude to better relationships, health, life outlook, and more.

You choose your job, home, and attitude. Accept this responsibility instead of fearing it. You don't have to work a job you hate, live somewhere you're unhappy, or stay in a relationship because it's safe. If you fall in love with life, you'll need to rethink your choices.

Remember, feeling broken means we need to make better choices for ourselves to give ourselves the chance. You deserve happiness, but sometimes it takes work and a life change.


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