Yes spending money correctly. I remember a friend somehow got the money to buy the car she wanted. She was actually crying to me saying, she thought having the car would make her happy. Well I guess it didn't make her happy. Since when did things make you happy? I could be happy looking at my flowering white sage. It is a place were different kinds of bees like coming to for nectar. Sometimes even the humming bird comes to my sage plant. How about even being happy washing the dishes by hand. Like you say, It is an experience. Even the experience of washing the dishes.