Thank you moonrisemama. This is so very true, it is not the lesson you want to teach your children. It is a challenge sometimes to figure out what is right to do for yourself, and then with children it is a whole different story. But yes that is a good reminder to stay true to yourself. And to live a life that matters. It is a great community here on steemit and I'm getting so many great new ideas and inspiration to go after it! I hope you are settling in nicely in your new home!