Mrs Bear man make take the blame for chasing you away now. Now you have started a domestic and you didn't even know. Bear man is going to sulk until you come back next week. He offloads all his new crap on you with your odd requests. You should have started a fight telling him you don't need help but his shop does. I have seen many of those run down and bugger all stock type shops. Ramming a can up something reminds me of that chicken dish with the beer can.