Interesting choice of topic @chbartist

Indeed it may be hard to say "no", as much as it may be hard to avoid saying "no".

Just like you said: it's partly about drawing a line.

I also believe that we need to learn to ignore other people judgements. People tend to worry that if they say "no" then they will be judged.
But the reality is that we're all being judged either way. And it's important to realize what is our value and ignore those who do not recognize it and are judgemental.

obviously upvoted
Piotr