Thanks for not being too graphic. It was actually fascinating to read about your interesting perspective. I think it is hard to not be bothered by what the woman thinks too. I would not worry about it unless you have trouble performing even after a time of really holding back getting rowsy in bed. Give it a few days or a week of rest in between to rebuild your appetite. It has gotta happen naturally when your body craves it, not just because of some ritual time you expect to spend together. Am I right?