It is incredibly sad how true this is and often this happens. I was weighing 52kg in high school and felt like I was obese because I was unfortunate as a women to inherit very muscular legs from my dad, and making it worse by doing sport and dancing. The reason for me thinking I was huge was due to my brother always joking, saying I can go kick start jumbo jets at Atlas (An aeronautic company in South Africa). I had no confidence because of this. Only now, in my forties do I realize how sporty and nice I actually looked back then. If only we can turn back time.