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RE: Mourning Over an Abusive Father
Thank you for sharing, I have also been contemplating the passing of my father even though he has not passed yet. His diet is out of control and the path is not headed to a good place. Any conversation I have with him about it are taken as me saying his past choices are inferior and wrong.
Ugh. That's so hard.
You are really in a powerless place. I think that might be the hardest - like having a child who is making bad decisions and you can't change it. Maybe the lesson is in how to be powerless gracefully? Accepting that I can't control something is extremely difficult for me. I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm here for you!