These "commitments" are sometimes uncomfortable, because there is no honest relationship of friendship, it is a formalism. When there is affinity, it is nice to meet to deliver or receive gifts. I think that's what makes the situation uncomfortable.
In that case, what we want is to isolate ourselves and avoid that contact that does not lead to anything important. Societies are full of those superficial acts of giving to be well, nothing more.
Really good point! That is what it is.
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