You are right. Christmas can be a very sad time when you lose a loved one. I lost my loving husband and my sons lost their father two years ago. Christmas is still sad for us, so we try to do a few new traditions so that it doesn't hurt so much. Each year the pain becomes a little less be we will never forget them. They will always be in our hearts. So, try to smile and carry on. Have the best Christmas that you can. Happy Holidays.