As for the narcissists: I didn't conflate psychopaths with narcissists.

I did... because, the DSM 5 has removed psychopath and replaced it with narcissist.

I prefer the DSM 4's term psychopath and sociopath better, because it is a much more apropos title.

The problem is, the psychopath is to everyone very well mannered, and socially gregarious person. But to his prey, he is a gas lighting manipulator who will turn every one of your friends against you and drain you of everything, including your sanity and health.