I dont know how to express how I feel when I read your posts. To me I feel like a fly on the wall watching you as you describe exactly what you feel and it feels as though I am there as well. Buy her some flowers and let her look at them. That will do her a lot better, only an old ladies opinion.
Yeah I think flowers are a good thing but not in solution to drink :0)
And I am half that my writing has that effect, means it's working!
:-)