Understanding that, as a parent, we can not make choices for our children in some areas. The universe allots us with the role of keeping them safe, and to guide them to making good decisions. However, as you accurately deciphered and shared in this post, they have to make the decision themselves. Innate to us, and given at birth, are the rights to choose our own internal principles. As a parent, we lead by example. Bridging the gap of understanding is somehow tough, and sometimes the universe gives us a break and gives that little extra nudge that is needed. I hope that your child can find honesty, as it is so important to development, and I'm sure, with your example he/she will. Happy holidays to you and your family. :)