A man, like a rose, must have thorns

A man, like a rose, must have thorns.

Roses protect themselves with thorns and retain moisture.

The person also is same, on the body grows some thorns, just won't be subjected to person optional humiliate, just can better protect good oneself.

"You can stop stabbing people, but you have to have thorns," mudd said.

That means you can stop bullying, but you must have the blood and guts not to be bullied.

Have seen a fable small story, call "the camel of the limits of ambition".

The story goes that on a cold winter's night, with the wind howling, an Arab in a warm tent was getting ready to rest.

Suddenly the camel, standing outside, raised the curtain of the Arab door, pathetically indicating that it was too cold outside, and hoping the host would allow it to put its head in to keep warm.

The good Arab, who could not bear the cold, agreed to the camel's request.

It wasn't long before the camel began to ask for a neck, front legs, and half way into the tent.Unable to resist, the arabs agreed.

With the kindness of the arabs, the camel pushed his whole body into the tent and squeezed the arabs out of the tent.

The case of the Arab and the camel is actually a common occurrence in our life.
Some people, such as the camel, have repeatedly used the kindness of others to satisfy their own selfish desires, but in the end they have the right to put their benefactors in a predicament.

Some people, like the Arab, are always good to others, as long as others have something to ask for, whether or not it will hurt their own interests, stupid full heart to pay, not a bit of gratitude, even hurt.

Do not have a heart to hurt others, nor a heart to defend others.Sometimes too simple, is not a good thing, others took advantage of you after, you will think you silly.

We all know that kindness is a virtue.However, in this society, people who are too kind are often the worst bullies.

Kindness is precious, but kindness is weakness if it doesn't have teeth.

Your kindness, must learn to see the object, you should leave the good people.

Your goodness must have its own principles and bottom line, as Emerson said: "your goodness must be a little sharp, otherwise it equals zero."

I have a friend, xiao nuomi, kind and gentle, who is always willing to ask for help from her colleagues.

Once, A colleague A was busy going to the appointment, so he asked glutinous rice to help with the statistics, and glutinous rice agreed.That night, glutinous rice worked until 10 o 'clock, finally finished the statistics, and it was no problem for colleagues A to review.

But later, the boss found A mistake in the data and found colleague A.My colleague A saw the weakness of glutinous rice at ordinary times, so he immediately put the blame on glutinous rice.

Poor glutinous rice?It is really pitiful to be screwed by colleagues, and must be comforted.

But it was also comforting to hope that she would understand the words of the writer ma DE:
You can stop stabbing, but you have to have a sting.

It means you can stop bullying, but you have to have the guts and guts not to be bullied.

When someone bullies you, you must have the courage to fight back.

Like the heroine Wei Yingluo in the recent TV series "yanxi strategy", she is very kind. She will help the ladies around her to overcome difficulties and worry about being tired for a cat. But she also has her own principle and bottom line.

When someone bullies her, she will not be passive, passive voice, will try to find opportunities to counter back.

Because the character is strong enough, slowly others will not dare to mess with her.
We do the same thing in our daily lives. If someone bullies you and takes advantage of you at will, if you always give in without any principles or bottom line, you will only make the other party's moves and make them even bolder.

If you stick to your bottom line, be brave enough to show your claws when someone hurts you, and let them know you're not a weak person, then the next time it will be enough to stop doing further damage.

Life is not about compromise. The more you shrink back, the less breathing room you have.
The more humble you act, the more distant your happiness will be.

No trouble, no fear.

Being bullied, can not be too cowardly, to dare to return.

In a world of love, you have to learn to live desperately.

You are not brave, no one is brave for you, you are not strong, no one is strong for you.

When someone tries to hurt you, be brave enough to light up your thorns and be a proud rose.

A person wants to want not to want to be bullied at will by the person, besides want to have the blood that does not humiliate by whom not have, more advanced practice, it is ceaseless effort, make oneself become a strong person.

Let others do something about you before they do it to you.Even if you take the shot, it won't hurt you.

The painful history of modern China has told us that a weak country without diplomacy will be beaten if it falls behind.

When the country is not strong enough, it is easy to be bullied at will.

But now the world is the same and China is no longer the same.

With generations of hard work, our economy is growing, our military is growing, and those who have bullied us are learning to be in awe.

There is no such thing as a well-deserved level of dancing and dancing in this world.

All the calm life, is relying on their own one step a footprint, a solid step out of the world.

You can stop stabbing, but you have to have a sting.

Even the most ferocious lion dare not attack an elephant easily.No matter how fierce the bad guys are, they dare not bully the stronger ones easily. But if you are just a weak white rabbit, who will the tiger eat you?The wicked don't bully you.

In this lifetime, we must force ourselves to be excellent, to learn, to experience, to make ourselves strong regardless of everything.

When you stand at the top in your armor, those cold winds, those cold rain, will not mess your character, will not hurt your body and mind.

There are many lions, but they can't catch up with you.

The wicked are still very evil, but dare not bully you easily.