Fingers crossed the kids get things sorted out. She's already singled out one of her sons as 'trying to put her away'. In reality, he mentioned a senior assisted-living community a half mile from his house. Basically, it's an apartment complex geared to seniors & they have people close by to help when needed. In her mind, we're locking her up so we don't have to be at her beck and call. Sigh..... My being the 'bad guy' would be to re-direct that fight onto me so he and the other kids can get her situated. I'm not worried about long-term animosity from her, as I don't think she can sustain it. I hesitate to say it, but it would almost be easier if she wasn't aware of what's happening to her. We're in the in-between space now and trying to tread as lightly as we can. At some point, sooner rather than later, that's not going to work anymore. I surely hope you're right about things working out. My hope is we can get her safely situated with a minimum of turmoil.

My hats off to y'all for doing such an awesome job with your grandmother. It's stressful and wears you down. I'm glad to hear there are a few of you so you can take turns. I would imagine having a 'breather' now and then is vital to recharge yourself. Bravo for being there for her!