Don't stress it too much - that is just how these things go. You start to worry less.. or care less about lifes problems maybe as you get older... and the act of just "being" comes a lot easier. Its all gonna be ok luv. - at leaste that is what I like to tell people haha. But truly I think most 20something couples go through this altra stress like phase ...like they have to get it all together before their 28 or some silly thing. Enjoy the now.