Best way of the making a useful plan
This is a very important skill that I have to get it before others.
Best way of the making a useful plan is no plan.
You just need a clearn goal.
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Albert Einstein is famously quoted as saying that we cannot solve problems at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.
How
Step 1
Know that our goals are be created to change our realize now not future or past .
Step 2.
Think about some of the goals and projects you’d like to accomplish. Which ones are already a good match for your current level of being? Which ones are not a match for your current vibe?
Step 3
Don’t bother to create plans for goals that you aren’t already a good match for. Such plans won’t work in the real world. First you have to get yourself to the level of thinking at which your goal can be achieved. After you get to that level of thinking, then you can start identifying action steps, and those actions will make sense.
Step 4
When your vibe is a very close match for a goal, you probably won’t even think of it as a goal. It will simply be a task to do, like making dinner or taking your dog for a walk.
One of the best reasons to set goals and work to achieve them is the vibrational shift you must undergo in order to achieve new goals, especially stretch goals.
Step 5
It’s safe to say that if a goal seems like a big deal to you, this indicates that your vibe isn’t yet a match for that goal.
Step 6
Let’s assume for now that you have a goal that you like, but you aren’t yet a vibrational match for it. What’s the next step?
Accept that if you’re struggling, it’s because you don’t understand the new vibe well enough. You might also be clinging to some false assumptions about it.
Doing
Don’t pretend to know something you haven’t yet experienced.
If you aren’t already living it, it’s safe to say that you don’t know it yet.
We could say that practice is what helped to shift your vibe, but we could also say that you shifted your vibe by spending time with people who already had the right vibe , and you picked up the right vibe (not just the know-how) from them.
Buy their books, and read them for starters.
Join clubs where these people are members.
Do whatever it takes to get face time with such people.
Don’t admire such people from a distance. You need to connect with them in person, and preferably one on one.
I recommend spending about 10 minutes per day visualizing how your life will be different once you’ve achieved your goal.
Step 7
Make a list
What’s a vibrational to.do list? It’s a list of the personal development work you need to do in order to become a match for your goal.
Ultimately it will include three types of growth experiences:
+You’ll shed limiting beliefs and perspectives that align with the old vibe, replacing them with new truths that align with the new vibe.
+You’ll shed negative relationships that are bad match for your new vibe, and you’ll add positive new relationships that are well aligned with it.
+You’ll stop feeding your power to excuses and obstacles, and you’ll begin emitting a more powerful vibe that draws your goal increasingly near.
How to do
example:
1.So your new truth might be, “Earning $80K per month is normal. It’s easy and natural for me.”
If you want to earn 20x more money, then you need to change your relationships to money by a factor of 20.
2.Suppose your goal (once again) is to go from earning $50K to $1M per year. When you imagine yourself as already there, it becomes clear that some of your current friends won’t be able to handle it. So part of your inner work will be to either (1) drop these people from your life, so they stop blocking you, or (2) have some deep conversations to transform these relationships, so these people can get behind your goal.
Build new relationships too. What kinds of people would you have in your life if you already achieved your goal? Start building those relationships now. They’ll actually help you get there. Don’t do the “I’m not worthy” thing. If you’re going to make this goal a reality, then you’re going to have to overcome those feelings of unworthiness. You might as well start now.
- Embracing Your Power.
It’s time to stop making excuses, stop blaming others, and accept the full consequences of what it will take to achieve your goal.
This includes dropping limiting beliefs and false assumptions, dumping disempowering relationships, and letting go of excuses and blame. If you avoid this inner growth work and try to jump ahead to cause-and-effect action steps, you’ll simply orbit your goal.
- Do more things to embracing yourself
Once you’ve identified the personal growth work you must go through in order to become a match for your goal, then get busy working on it.
Journal to gain new insights (contrast the old vibe with the new one).
Have deep conversations with people who are intelligent and aware.
Meditate on feelings of gratitude and appreciation.
Keep visualizing yourself as already there; feel it as real.
Disconnect from people who aren’t a match for your goal.
Join a club that will help you align your vibe with your goal.
Move to a new city that’s a better match for your goal.
Replace the books on your bookshelf with books that match the new vibe.
Donate possessions that aren’t a good match for the new vibe.
Catch yourself giving your power away, and reclaim it by directing it back towards your desires.
When someone says no to your desires, say no to that aspect of your relationship with them (or to the whole relationship, if necessary).
Create new empowering belief statements to replace old limiting beliefs.
Hang out regularly with people who can naturally help you align with your goal (i.e. people who inspire you in that direction).
Intend and expect to reach your goal.
Use the word “when” instead of “if” when talking about your goal.
Blog about your goal or talk about it publicly (this will reveal mismatching relationships and help attract compatible connections too).
Conduct experiments like 30-day trials to immerse yourself in the experience of a new vibe.
Change your diet, clothes, etc. to eat, dress, and live as if you’re already there.
Put up pictures or other inspirational messages that represent the new vibe.
Read books written by others who emit a vibe that’s compatible with your goal.
Go to lectures, workshops, seminars, and retreats that will help immerse you in the new vibe.
Forgive people who’ve wronged you, and release the hurt and resentment.
The exact processes you use here aren’t that important.
Whatever. The specific process doesn’t matter. What works best for me may not work at all for you, and vice versa. The important thing is that the processes you use are helping you become a match for your goal. Don’t stick with a process that isn’t giving you results.
Finally,When you’ve integrated the new vibe well enough (perfection isn’t necessary), you’ll find that the right actions begin to flow with ease.
The personal growth work will not be easy. It may be very challenging. But this is the area where you’ll make the fastest progress when working towards goals that you aren’t already a good match for experiencing.
Let's do it now
Define your outcome.
Develop a deeper understanding of the new vibe that matches the goal (get face time with people who’ve achieved it, visualize yourself as already there).
Contrast your current vibe with the new vibe to see where you’re out of alignment (use contrasting visualizations, broadcast your desires).
Identify the personal growth work necessary to adjust your vibe (new truths, new connections, smarter application of your power).
Use your favorite processes to do the personal growth work until you achieve enough alignment to experience the flow of inspired action.
Allow the flow of inspired action (not force) to guide you to your goal.
Enjoy the harmonious manifestation of your goal.
If it seems like the action steps are unknown or a struggle, then you need to do more work on aligning your vibe with your goal.
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