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RE: We all have sorrow, But if we are wise, We know that there's always tomorrow
This is an awesome post. My lover committed suicide and NO ONE saw it coming. The assumption that one can see a vulnerable soul is fallacious, I think. We simply nee d to pay even more attention to the "strong" ones with the tight facades who always seem to be OK until one day they're not and are gone. A very important post - thank you.
Sorry to hear about your loss. Sure that it was devastating for you. So many emotions happen when someone does that, the sadness of your loss, the anger of how the F could that do that, and the empathy for their loved ones.
There are some that are so hard to know what is really happening with them. If someone doesn't tell anyone that they are hurting it gets so much harder for others to notice. We just have to pay attention to our loved ones and do the best we can.
Now I think the more water-tight a facade is, the less I believe it. Trust my energy and feeling more. But it has been a loooong journey to come to terms with his choice.