Thing you should do to improve and maintain you relationship

in #life6 years ago

I just want to remind people that they should always work on their relationship and never neglect it.
Love and affection can't last forever without you working for it every day and if you really love the person you're
in a relationship with, this will never feel like hard work.
It's a combination of doing the little thing every day and to really take time and do something with the person that will work like a glue in your relationship.

Here is a list of thing you can and should do for your loved one.

1. Never leave being angry at each other

Anger/Irritation has a ability to destroy a relationship if it continues and is never really resolved. Of course it inevitable to never have any issues with each other, but an easy rule is that you should at least never leave each other without resolving these issues. To say "I'm sorry" can be one of the most crucial thing if done correctly and if you really mean it.

2. Doing the little things

What I mean about this is that the everyday life have to not just be routine and stiff, just a little act of appreciation will mean much for the other person in the relationship.

This can be things like giving the partner a message without he/she asks for it, writing a note on the lunch telling he/she to have a great day and that you love him/her or maybe just buy some flowers even dough it's not a birthday or anniversary. Life is hard enough, let's make life a bit easier to handle by our actions.

3. Share an interest

It's good if you can have different hobbies and activities, but in my book I think it's also important to try to share some interest together with your partner also. This will give you an incentive to just do stuff the both of you together and have fun with each other. This might be everything from watching a TV-series, workout or maybe do agility with your pet.

4. Listen to each

A classic but it's still important. There is no worse feeling than when your being ignored or not listen to by your partner.
You should always have interest in listing to what your partner have to say since you are a team and you should feel great about that they want to share something with you.

Let's try to all improve our relationships and that in turn will make the world a little bit better.

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This is really true!

The little things make the difference between a good and a great relationship. Wheather it's just messaging your partner something cheerful and positive, or giving her a little massage, it doesn't matter, just do something every day that will make your partner happy :)!

Great article, man :)!

Thanks for the comment :)
Yeah I thinks it's easy to forget and get comfortable in a long relationship.

Wow, I didn't expect that I can do such mistakes in my relationships. I 100% agree that things you mentioned id this article have big impact on what people think aboutt us. We have to care about it and try to do it everyday.

You changed my mind after reading this post and I'm really glad to follow you. If you have more similar tips, please share it with us :)

Glad that you like my post :)
There will come more in the future ;)

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