Im Indonesian and this is so wrong. My oldest son has long hair (shoulder length) and he doesnt want to cut his hair. He is a boy that dresses like a boy, play soccer and play with toys that are meant for boys. So if someone would just chop off his hair because that person believes boys should have short hair, i would be very pissed. I live in the Netherlands and even here, many Dutch people believe boys should have short hair. But forcing someone to dress as they think they should is really wrong in my eyes.