I think that in the matter of extreme leadership there is a certain tinge of immaturity and a hunger for recognition quite childish, perhaps for this reason it is that the person who does it is not able to notice it and when someone else points it out it can explode, because later everything is usually quite poor to control their emotions and the idea of rejection of their "leadership" can be frightening.
Hi @pedrobrito2004
Friend, that is why one of the fundamental characteristics is humility, the leader must always be willing to highlight the group or even other members above it, this is something that is not easy due to our selfish nature, however, A leader must be prepared for this.