Thank you @ziethehedgehog

I have encountered the same thing like you describe here:

I told him that I wanted to cut my hair and it's gonna happen soon. He pleaded me not to, saying don't cut your hair, and we will be happy if I didn't. He said I wouldn't be a girl anymore, but a boy with skirts. He held my head and said ' don't be a white woman.'

The guy was telling me that he thinks that he is laying in bed with a guy once the light is turned off and he feels my short hair. How is this possible?
I also cut the relationship rather quickly.

Thank you for this insight. I'm so glad to read that you found somebody great now! You deserve it.

xx
Elena

P.S.: Upvoted! And Following you from now on - I really appreciate this post.