Of course, there is room to follow your own spontaneity a little, and I think people do that. But more often than not, every day is full of obligations, so you have to choose your moment of spontaneity during a free time. And even then, I think many people here feel reluctant to choose something for themselves because of the way it might impact the people around them.

Some of the tips in the photograph are about attending events like weddings, funerals, and people when they are in the hospital. The tips include how much money you should give depending on your relationship to the person involved and which envelope you should put the money in.

Some of these customs are old and aren't practiced very often, so they aren't exactly taught to children. They get passed down to younger generations, but not in detail, so these reminders are helpful.