I feel the same dissonance when I want to speak out for Palestine. I have several good friends from Israel, who live in US now and it feels like anything that is said is taken as anti-semitism. That and like you said, it seems like an invitation for hatred. You hit it right on the nose for me. I am very vocal about so many issues, and yet this is exactly why I say almost nothing about Israel, and I never really clearly understood or verbalized why that was. Thank you xo