Upvoted. Agreed, learning to love yourself takes a foundation in what matters most in life, from an eternal perspective, from an understanding that beauty is not skin deep. It is deeper.There is more here than what meets the eye says Transformers. Life is full of choices, too. Slavery is a choice, too, says Kanye West. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and beauty is progressive, revolutionary, and it evolves over time. Beauty matures over time like fine wine.